Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Back in the Jungle

Finally arrived back in Honduras Sunday PM after more than 3 months in the USA!
John arrived home in Balfate almost 2 weeks before me alone, after an unexpected 24 hr delay in Houston, in which he wore out his sandals hiking around to allay the boredom! But he arrived without mishap, ferried from San Pedro out to the hospital by trusty neighbor Dr. Don. I enjoyed his reentry vicariously from Tulsa, OK, where I flew 2 days after I put him on the plane for Honduras. I enjoyed the second opportunity in my 3 + months to have some alone time with my folks in Sun City, AZ before flying on to deal with my painful R. wrist. Mom, after a downhill episode, got a clean bill of health from her cardiologist and pulmonologist, and while resigned to her “new normal” still amazes her children by her consistent swimming and walking. She is slowly pushing back to her 1/2 mile daily in the pool, so we are thankful for that. I will not soon forget the hours we spent in the pool together walking and rehashing my 56 years as her daughter. Time spent with dad in the exercise gym trying to at least keep up with “the old codger” as he calls himself will long sustain me in the months away from them. Thank you, Lord, for precious time with my parents!

My 2 weeks in Tulsa sped by, full of contacting friends and supporters. The priority was to make necessary contacts to get some consult on my wrist, and that was accomplished with the help of a friend who is the PT for a hand surgeon here. She paved the way for me to get an appointment with him after seeing the PCP, and even accompanied me, followed by a session of showing me various exercises and helps for my hand. In the delay before I could get an EMG done, I scheduled various other preventative procedures, some long overdue. One was to have been done 4 years ago…my, where DOES the time go? Having put some of these necessary tests behind me will make our next time back to the US less hurried for me.

Between tests, I traveled north to see the 2 kids and 3 grandkids there, and south to see faithful friends near our old home in Okmulgee. Jake lives near where we always stay in Tulsa, and came by twice to take a long walk and have dinner with me. He also met me up north one weekend to slumber party with our grandkids, Eryn and Benton, and share rootbeer floats and a movie. Then all of us accompanied our son Dan, 23, to watch him play in a fundraiser football game for cancer. Good memories!

The EMG showed no evidence of what the hand surgeon thought was surely an acute onset of carpal tunnel bilaterally. Hm, so I left for Honduras only knowing what it is NOT. He injected it with steroids, and told me to try using it.

Because of the unexpected layover in Tulsa, I was able to see Sarah, Jaie and Ellison again, as they flew in Friday to go see her siblings and Jaie’s grandfather. We shared pizza together and got some 5 week pictures. It was a sniffy parting for me, knowing there would be many months without hugging Ellie.

I left Tulsa in below freezing weather , and arrived San Pedro Sula with temps of about 90. We were able to get in to the hospital area by dark Sunday, and am well into unpacking and reorganizing the house after so long away. I have spent my first 2 days home doing just that, with 5 visits to friends and coworkers this afternoon. Some joyous visits, thankful for the growth I see, some sad, seeing a return to old vices.
My first visit was to Suyapa, a Honduran coworker who has led SO many people to the Lord! She is 49, and hospitalized in critical condition. I brought her a Teddy Bear that she’d asked for. Made me sad as her changes have all come during my absence. She appeared healthy when I left. One thing is sure- He who began a good work in her will surely bring it to a glorious completion!
As I write, I hear the riotous singing next door of 50 plus teenagers, who gather together weekly for Alfa and Omega, time of playing volleyball followed by devotions and singing. I sense that we will hear from these young people in the future…that our area will be forever changed by them.
John and I have enjoyed 2 nites eating on our new patio that he built while we were separated, to the tune of the jungle insects as the sun sets. We have also enjoyed morning coffee out there, so guess it was a good idea! I had questioned if we’d ever use it, but think especially when we get plants in and improve the scenery around it, it will be nice. Gives us kind of a secluded together place, which is nice since we all live in glass houses here with an open door policy all the time.
So its back to jungle journalism, all further notes will reflect that! Thanks for all who hosted us/me and made our time away so special.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Homeward Bound (I wish I were!)

Tamara Kirk and Penny on early AM walk
Silly picture time!

John and I just finished up 6 weeks in the NW, 4 spent with our daughter Sarah , and 2 in our home in WA. During the time we were homebased in Portland with Sarah and Jaie, and then little Ellie Isabela, John went to Jacksonville, OR to visit the group there who have twice now visited us in Honduras, and are planning another visit in the fall. I stayed behind to have more time with Ellie, as she was such a late arrival we knew her more pre-birth than post. It was hard to pack up and know we'd not see them again for many months.


We arrived back in Moses Lake, WA in time for me to spend l nite in our cozy home and then pack a suitcase and sleeping bag to bus with some of the church ladies to a winter retreat in ID. The snow was about a foot deep at the retreat center on a lake there- incredible scenery, lots of deer. I shared briefly about the work at Loma de Luz, and some thoughts on not wasting our lives, on apostolic passion. Met a lot of deep women, snowshoed during free time, innertubed down a hill, crocheted on my scarf that I hope to have done in less time than my last baby sweater took (2 years).


Returned home to frigid weather and spent the next week just cleaning and sorting the house, having time with my sister and brother-in-law. When home, we spend most suppers together at one of other of our homes- can't get enough of each other. I fill up my tank with laughter for another year!


Our last weekend in WA saw us at a mission conference again sharing the Honduras work. Sure met a lot of wonderful people, many of whom have sent us support without us knowing them even . So was good to put faces to the names. Moses Lake is becoming more like home as we meet more people.


Left at 5 AM with the neighbor kindly taxi-ing us the 1 1/2hr to the airport. Now just a full day for us to repack with the gear we left at my folks here in Sun City and put John on the plane for Honduras Friday am. I will go on to tulsa to see if we can find out what ails my R. wrist thats been in a splint now for 6 weeks. Next blog from there!

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

E-Time (Time with Ellie!)

Ellison Isabella- Ellie, in quiet alert mode.
The First Lady standing guard over the new arrival.

E-time on the bouncy ball. It works!


This is Ellie's 5th day. My mom asked last night if I'd taught her to read yet. Working on it. Having long and weighty conversations, in which Ellie appropriately moves in what Sarah calls the Hand Dance. At day 5, Ellie has taught us all what makes her happy- and that is any movement that simulates the action in the womb, as her mama is a very busy med surg nurse and worked up til the end. Ellison is used to action! So we cuddle the little burrito while bouncing on the large bouncy exercise ball. I'm a believer ! Nice centerpieces at the table have been replaced by an even nicer one- Ellie in her bouncy seat. This very organized and charmingly decorated home has baby equipment in every niche. The swing, car seat, bouncy seat, bath seat, jog stroller- and no one seems to mind the invasion! They were adamant that this child would NOT sleep in the adult bed...would have to stay in the co-sleeper to be safe. Only 4 nites of this new life and she managed to convince them that it might not be a bad tradeoff for some sleep! She is a cuddler, likes to have her legs crossed and up on her abdomen like in utero. Has been to the store, the pediatrician, the lactation consultant, and around the block on a dog walk twice, so she is a mover and a shaker! DO WE LOVE HER? YES WE DO! Childrern are indeed a heritage of the Lord.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Ellison, 8#1oz, February 19, 2009




Well, our daughtr Sarah was able to give birth to little Ellison this a.m. without induction! They went in last PM to begin the process, as she was 2 weeks overdue, and think she was resigned to the process. But little Ellison went into active mode about 4 am instead of waiting on the Pitocin, and came into the world by herself about the time they were to have begun the induction! Mom and baby doing well. Including a picture for all of you who wondered what we were REALLY doing all this time in the states! John will go to S. OR Saturday to meet with Jacksonville Pres. Church to talk with their group that wants to visit again this coming fall- I will likely stay here to bond to Ellison! Thanks to all who have been praying for them. How we desire to see Ellison grow to love and honor the Lord!


"Lo, children are a gift of the Lord".

Friday, February 6, 2009

Lady in Waiting and Lady waiting

John looking HazMat-ty!

The Lady in Waiting and Lady waiting, both patiently.



Passing the days awaiting the birth of our granddaughter here in Portland, OR with twice daily walks of Sarah and Jaie's golden retriever, Lady. The outings in the wet cold here are greatly anticipated by all, Sarah hoping by such exercise to decrease the time she spends awaiting the birth of her daughter, Lady just for the sheer joy of an outing with her loved ones.

John has spent time in various projects, insulating under the house here, building a child-proof barrier for the heater, helping his college roommate Louis with his rental home here in Portland. Yesterday we spent some hours with our niece's family, who have embarked on a huge undertaking of home building- with 6 kids under 7. John helped pour the floor in the garage yesterday. Thus we pass the time of waiting! "Whatever your hand findeth to do, do it with all your might".

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Ongoing Saga of Emaneul


Penny and I are in Oregon for a few weeks patiently waiting for the birth of our daughter Sarah's first child. Penny had come to the US earlier to care for her mother (in the aftermath of some pulmonary emboli). As you may have noted. her mother is doing much better.

Leon Greene drove me to La Ceiba as the first leg of my trip north and accomodated my request to stop at the home of our young friend Emanuel (and his family) and get a picture of him.

You may recall that Emanuel's mother, Keylin, died a few hours after his birth about 10 months ago. His live birth was a miracle, considering his mother's inevitably fatal heart defect (Tetrology of Fallott).

Emmanuel was born, full term, weighing 3 1/2 pounds (not kilograms)-incredibly small due to the low blood oxygen his mother endured (in spite of being aided by an oxygen concentrator given by encouragers from Tulsa, OK).

Tho tiny and looking a bit "elfish", he appeared to be healthy. I have watched with some anxiety for signs of normal development, being reasonably concerned for his central nervous system development as a result of his intrauterine oxygen deprivation.

Emanuel appears to be a bit of a VIP in the village of Lis Lis, as he is often visiting a neighbor or relative when we stop by. (And I can note that his mother's pregnancy and his birth have increased the number of patients from the village getting prenatal care.) But whenever we stop by, a "big sister or brother" (really his cousins) run one path or another to bring him for us to see. I search each time for some signs of development. Seeing him this day was truly getting to see a bit more of the miracle of his birth. Leon (a cardiologist and actively involved in Keylin's care) and I were so privileged.

Big Sis handed Emanuel to me as she returned from a neighbor house that morning. For the first time, he cried and reached for "mommy", so I gave him to her, but within seconds his crying stopped and he was reaching back to get his hands in my beard (few men here have beards). WOW! "Stranger anxiety" developing about on schedule- and yet sufficient recognition (of me) and curiosity about my strange face. As we talked, I asked about the scrape on his nose. His mother (aunt), told me that it was from falling while learning to walk! Delmi (his mother) asked one of the other children to bring a chair and she put him down beside it. He zoomed around the porch, scooting the plastic chair in front of him.

WOW, stranger anxiety, recognition, curiosity and walking developing on time, .
You know that we praise GOD for getting to see this.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

A Bike in Every Port

Today is John's 60th birthday...he is not fond of my broadcasting it, but I think its wonderful! I quote, "Grow old along with me. The best is yet to be!" We headed out for an early AM walk to the store to have birthday coffee and buy some grapes for him. On returning to the house, I put the no-fat carrot cake to bake while we went to Home Depot so he could begin buying things for Honduras. We will only have l full day in Phoenix as we depart the country in March, so he needs to get most stuff during our last 2 days here before flying to the NW on Saturday.

You know the saying, "A woman in every port?" Well, we joke about John's "bike in every port". Knowing he'd not had much exercise for that past 7 months, I set out to locate a bike for him to ride during his 5 days here in Sun City. Found that to rent one here would be about $50 daily, and was having no luck finding a used one, so had given up. The last night before he arrived I went to Craig's List once again and made a few calls. One sounded positive, so we followed it up Monday and were able to get a very nice John-quality bike for much less than a rental. Plus it will have the advantage of always being here at my folks when we visit. Thank you, Lord! John has used it at least once daily this week, did 60 K yesterday. Well worth it!
John and I drove directly to Sedona, AZ after reuniting at the airport late Saturday- 6 weeks to the day that John had taken me to the airport to fly up and be here with mom. John's brother Gary and his wife Jane had saved dinner for us, and we also got to visit with Gary's daughter Lynn and her daughter. They are the most awesome hosts in the world, always making us feel pampered and loved. We go away spiritually fed, emotionally tended, physically refreshed. We attended sunday services at Christ Center Wesleyan, one of our supporting churches, and shared a bit impromptu about the work in Honduras. A very warm and receptive group- good visits with new friends afterwards. Monday a.m. I met with the church secretary just to share and deepen the relationship that had begun several weeks before when she had gone to church with Jane and I down in Phoenix. Time well invested.
Yesterday, Mike and Kandee McKlain from OR who have visited us with a team twice now in Honduras came by to see us. They are snowbirding for 2 months near here, and took the opportunity to take us hiking and picnicking. We did some brainstorming re: their 2009 trip next September, and were able to view the awesome album another team member, Shirley, had sent with them. So fun to see our world thru other's eyes. Very encouraging. Kandee left us with another original painting she had done of a Honduran mud hut- John immediately claimed it as I have her first one in my office. They also left us with the video the pastor, Richard, had put together to present to their church after their visit to Honduras. Excellent, and was very good to be able to show it to my folks to give them a better idea of our lives there.
John and I, Kandee and Mike

Our Sarah's baby is now less than 2 weeks from due. Praise God she has navigated these 38 weeks in good health. Our next note will likely be first pictures of our granddaughter!


And, speaking of granddaughters, Eryn, 10, won her school's geography bee yesterday! WOW! We immediately got online and ordered her the National Geographic guide for studying! This is the same brilliant child who just did a science fair project on "The Relative Strength of Various Brands of Gummy Worms". Top that one, you grandparents! :)